We know the models and billboards and magazines are photoshopped yet we still try to compare ourselves to an unrealistic fake figure. The problem with this is that it will never be achievable no matter how hard you try, because a realistic body can't accommodate to an unrealistic one. It's hard, I know. I've been there. Which is why I'm here to tell you that when you compare yourselves to others it deminishes your own self and how you feel.  Theodore Roosevelt said it perfectly, when we compare ourselves to others our joy is gone. So please I ask you to look at yourself in the mirror and say I am me, it's who I am. There is no one like me, I am not going to compare myself to others because I love me. And I AM AWESOME. I know it's not easy to change that self concept just like that , so here is something I want you to think about... Think of the happiest moment of your life, did you love yourself at that point? What changed? Did you start comparing yourself to ot...

I know What I went through and the experiences I've had, have made me the person I am today confident and proud of myself! And I am so grateful for that. Everyone has flaws.. It's how you look at them and accept them that make you a better, more confident person! You are all wonderful! Thank you for your support in my Miss PG pageant. Remember who you are becoming on the inside is more important than how you look on the outside. Sometimes you have to realize what you need to fix in order to fix it. Make a goal to accept yourself today and everyday! ❤️❤️ 

I know how hard it can be in the world today, we are constantly bashed with the perfect media "model" and "this is what you can do to look prettier" but LETS BE REALISTIC. Every ad is photoshopped every billboard is touched up and every model is configured before shown to the world. We compare ourselves to the unrealistic figures that are placed before us.. They are NOT achievable. We are imperfect and filled with flaws and we are BEAUTIFUL! imperfection=Beauty, a good heart=Beauty, confidence=Beauty, loving yourself and who you are, being comfortable in your own skin is BEAUTY. I think a lot of the time we get caught up on what we "need" to look like to fit in, when in reality you were born to stand out. Sometimes you just need to shift your focus.. What is more important? They way you look on the outside... Or the person you are becoming on the inside? Make a goal with yourself today, answering this question "what can I do today to love myself more?...